In my political reporter days, I crossed paths with Sen. Kennedy. He was middle aged then but still handsome, with the most beautiful blue eyes I'd ever seen. Certainly Irish eyes, they were a brilliant blue. He seemed a cautious man, a bit skittish perhaps. He had not yet grown into the old lion he will be remembered as in the hundreds of eulogies you can read online in the papers and on television.
I'm not writing about him as a politician, because we all know politics and food blogs do not mix.
But I do think his death - which yesterday seemed imminent, and thus comes as no real surprise - requires some remarks because this blog is and was intended to be as much about our culture and our world as it is about food. I cannot separate the two.
Whatever you think of the politics of the Kennedys, they have captured the imaginations of the world for decades because their saga is so bittersweet.
They loomed larger than life. A staunch Democrat (married to an Irish American), Grandma Annie took a keen interest in their lives. My parents, less politically inclined, were naturally excited when someone of their generation and religion was elected president.
And while my husband and I often tire of hearing about celebrities (can you imagine how we've loathed hearing about Michael Jackson all summer), we are pausing tonight to watch television tonight to remember Teddy. Bill Clinton and George Bush notwithstanding, he was the most famous person I've ever written about, a few steps above the high-flying attorney and the cabinet member.
The Kennedy brothers and their families shaped the views and ideals of an entire generation or two, in ways we recognize and in some we don't. Now the last of the triumvirate of our childhood is gone. There doesn't seem to be anyone in the next two generations of Kennedys to take their place.
Maybe we don't need any more Kennedys.
But clearly, we need something. And I don't think we've figured out what that is yet.
Note: The photo was taken around this time a few years back along the shores of a cove I love on the other side of town. I liked its brooding quality.
